Standing Strong 

 

Are you Standing Strong and creating a position for growth?  For instance, learning to stand on your own two feet will get you farther than being guided or held by another.

 

Position for Growth

 

Our growth position can put us in a box.  It can be the difference in who’s happy where they are, or if they feel stuck.   This difference is called  fulfillment.  For instance, a box is built every time we form an absolute belief about ourselves, or others, you name it.  Let’s call it another wall between us and them preventing growth.  

The average person making their way through life has so many beliefs about the world and their place in it.  It is like a program you built to stop your subconscious from considering any other possibility.  In other words, they confuse these beliefs with their identity.

 

Breaking the box of your position

 

As we go about our day, let’s look for limitations we give ourselves.  Open your eyes to try new things or go different routes or position in life.   In other words, teach yourself to learn new things and expand your growth. Work on your passions to find ways to grow your subconscious so you are not stuck. 

 

This may be scary to create something and not follow, but I assure you it’s all worth it.  Pay attention to the words you use and the thoughts you have and then look for every new opportunity that comes when you change from “I am ___” to “Part of me feels, I can ___”.                                                   

 

“It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end”  Ernest Hemingway.

  

You May Need That Change and Are Not Aware of It.

 

The world has seasons of change:  Winter, Spring, Summer and Fall. Is it any different with life?  How you handle it is what will determine where you can be. Hence, I learned a valuable lesson when I challenged myself to change.

 

The seasons don’t change, they come and go every year.  The calendar has twelve months, and we always seem to know what is coming.  But you can change, your life is unpredictable. Don’t just wish it away for something easier, learn to embrace it. 

Wish you were better, wish for more skills, and wish for more wisdom.  For instance, life is about constant, predictable patterns of change, and the only constant factor will be our feelings and attitude towards it.  

  

“Are you creating a painting of mystery or a photograph of belief?” Sandy Mangis

 

 You May Need That Change Be Honest

 

 I want you to be honest with yourself and see if you fit in any of these categories…

 

• • • • You would rather be anywhere than here.  Is there something gnawing at you, and you just want out, your job, your relationship, your city, your house….

• • • • You can see yourself somewhere else (what are you dreaming of). Have you lost your dream, or failed to act when the opportunity hit?  As we get older the robot life seems to creep up and grab hold. We forget the imagination and the dreams we once thought of.

• • • • You have more frenemies than friends.   How do you see other people? Are they just co-workers or ones you laugh, cry and adventure with?  Without close friends it can cause stress, depression, you tend to overwork, and turn life away.

 

Did you see yourself in one or more?  

 

Then it’s time for a change!

Tools For You to Gather

 

Oh I get it, change is hard and you might think things will get better if you just let it roll.  I will let you in on a little secret.

 

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It does, If…

 

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You start to change.   The single most important factor in anyone’s life is happiness.  For instance, if you plan on living forever, like me, then let’s figure out how to create happiness every day.  

 

Life is a game, not about money or success, but how you feel, you will overcome the fear and learn to breakout and learn new things when you change.   Hence, there are choices to make, think about it, you make choices every day, why not make the choice to be happy in the things that you do.   

 

Ask yourself these questions, and if you get stuck go back and reread the earlier ones.  That should give you some motivation.

 

Where am I?

What could I do to make the changes to ensure that I can take more certain daily steps toward the treasure I want?

Where can I adjust to take me where I want to go.

Remember the world has seasons of change, Winter, Spring, Summer and Fall. Is it any different with life?   

 

Standing Strong In Life

 

To truly see how keep standing strong and position for growth, there are certain things that no one can take away! 

 

1. 1. 1. Wisdom

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Lao Tzu

1. 1. 2. Passion

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world. Harriet Tubman

1. 1. 3. Attitude

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference. Winston Churchill

1. 1. 4. Experience

Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. Soren Kierkegaard

1. 1. 5. Happiness

Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action. Benjamin Disraeli

6.Faith

Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe. Saint Augustine

1. 1. 7. Perspective

When you wake up every day, you have two choices. You can either be positive or negative; an optimist or a pessimist. I choose to be an optimist. It’s all a matter of perspective. Harvey Mackay

1. 1. 8. Kindness

Kindness in words creates confidence.  In thinking it creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love. Lao Tzu

Now is your time for standing strong and position for growth in all that you do.

keep smiling

Sandy

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Tools For You to Gather

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